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used
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Tue, 23 Feb 9:32pm
i have never used something like this before but I need to just tell someone, if anyone is listening. Time and time again ppl come to me for help, advice, and just to be a listening ear, which i dont mind.... but the problem is that this is all they come to me for. I feel like i am just a friend they can vent to. parties, girls, nights, or shopping trips are never anything they (my friends) would ask me to do with they. I just get that call of someone crying or needing to vent and there I am, open arms and ready to listen. I love my friends, I really do, but that seems that is all i am good for. Am i not fun? Am I anoying? I think there must be something wrong with me. I dunno.... im sick of being used :(

Used
justwanttohelp!
Member
Tue, 2 Mar 4:02pm
Dear used,
i can see how this must make you feel really upset and used but mabey your friends just dont realize that oyu are upset you should try talking to them and many asking to come along when they go out. Or you could plan a trip to the mall and invite some of oyur friends that way you make sure you get involed :)

I hope this has helped!
Youth Team
Moderator
Mon, 8 Mar 6:43pm
Hey Used,
I can imagine how tough it must be to be such a good friend that is always there to support your friends but feel as though there is no support from your friends for you to go to in return. I get the sense that your a very supportive friend to have and you really care for how your friends are feeling. Is there anyone you have been able to talk to with how you have been feeling? friends or others in your life?

Take care Used

~ Jay~ from the youth team
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