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    Nie
    Member

    I tried apologizing to my best friend, she wont reply back to my emails, she hasn’t phoned me, and apparently according to a teacher we are going to be doing a duet for a school performance I didn’t know about because she wont talk to me. ive given up. im just not gonna talk to her, or my teachers. they can suck it up and just watch me live my life not caring about their involvement. at least they cant make me unattractive* if I don’t talk to them!

    *Edited by the Support Team for triggering content

  • #19113
    Youthspace
    Youthspace
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    Hi Nie,

    It’s awful to lose someone who we care about from our life… It sounds like you’re really hurt by the way your friend has been ignoring you after you apologized to her. I imagine you were making yourself vulnerable by giving your apology, and it’s painful to have no answer to it. You say that you have given up, and I’m guessing that giving up feels necessary put distance between yourself and others so that they can’t hurt you like this. From the title of your post, it sounds like this isn’t the first person you have felt abandoned by, and that you’re pretty sick of it.

    How’ve you been coping with the feelings around your best friend, Nie? Have things changed for you?

    We’re here to listen if you want to talk more about it.
    The Support Team

  • #19117

    Nie
    Member

    ive gotten to the point where im just going to shove them away and shut them out… I don’t know if itll work but im gonna try

  • #19126
    Youthspace
    Youthspace
    Moderator

    Nie,
    Sounds like you’re at the point of frustration with these feelings where protecting yourself from the feelings and avoiding them all-together seems your most viable option.

    I’m wondering if there are times in your life, maybe when you are with certain people, or doing certain activities when you are safe from these negative feelings?

    We value your voice here Nie. Thank you for continuing to check in and share with us.
    <3 The Support Team

  • #19130

    Nie
    Member

    there isn’t really especially these days.

  • #19137
    Youthspace
    Youthspace
    Moderator

    Hi Nie,

    We’ve responded to this and your other forum posts under your thread “Bulemia/EDNOS” in Physical Health, in order to streamline our conversation with you.

    Glad you’re checking in, as always.

    <3 The Support Team

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