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  • #16454

    dj
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    my friends all say I’m pretty but i don’t feel pretty i look at my friends dating these boy who are good looking and i look at myself with no one

    no one ever looks at me like they look at other girls i am not pretty enough

    i don’t get it i feel left alone and sad because i feel ugly and it hurts but how cares what i think im just that weird girl who has no one

  • #19064
    Youthspace
    Youthspace
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    Hi dj,

    Welcome and thank you for posting so honestly on our Forum. I can really hear the loneliness, pain and frustration you are experiencing from seeing your friends in happy relationships while you are stuck feeling unattractive and unworthy. I get the sense that it leaves you questioning if you are deserving to be cared for and loved because you are currently alone?

    I can imagine how difficult it must be to feel more positively about who you are when you want nothing more than to be with someone who truly gets you and makes you feel special and for some reason, that special someone has not appeared in your life yet. Seems like you think that if you had a good looking boy to date, you would believe your friends when they say that you are pretty.

    I am wondering if there is anything that you can think of that you can do to make yourself feel that you are special, pretty and worth it, something that doesn’t require others? You deserve to feel that way with or without someone dj.

    Please know that we are here for you through your struggles.

    The Support Team <3

  • #19065

    dj
    Member

    thank you for your words of wisdom they are much needed right now and you are right i may think i am not pretty but its not whats the out side that counts it whats on the inside
    thank you again.

  • #19066
    Youthspace
    Youthspace
    Moderator

    Hey dj,

    No problem – that’s what we’re here for. Feel free to continue to access support on the forum or join us on chat from 6-11 PST on weekdays or 6-12 PST on Fridays and Saturdays – we’ll be here for you.

    <3 The Support Team

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