Hi AncientCross,

Welcome to Youthspace.ce. Thank you for posting and telling us about the discomfort you’re having at home. It sounds like you feel very victimized and hurt by the way you’re being treated by your mom and step dad! Heartbreaking…not only to feel unfairly accused, but to have it come from people that you probably wish you could rely on for support and encouragement. 🙁 I can hear that the way you’re being treated is affecting you badly.

For what it’s worth, nobody should have to feel unsafe and unfairly treated in their home, by the people who are supposed to care for them. We’re here if you would like to talk more about it. Seems like you’ve been alone with this for a while, and I imagine it must feel sometimes like you’re just getting smaller and smaller as you try and avoid conflict with your mom and step dad. It’s painful to have to be alone with feelings like this.

If you need to talk more, you can try chatting to Youthspace.ca when we’re open (6pm-12am PST). Or, if we’re busy or closed, you can try chatting with or calling Kids Help Phone. You can also respond here on the forum! We’ll do our best to get back to you within 3 days.

Stay strong. <3

-Youthspace Team