Hey Deepak2J,

Welcome to youthspace! Thanks for posting on our forum. (: I hope you don’t mind that I responded to both on your posts on this thread?

I can hear how infuriated you’re feeling from the way you’ve been treated by your neighbours… I imagine that it might feel like they don’t value your skills, even though you worked really hard to get into and complete that computer course and then to get a job there too …? I’m also hearing that you put so much thought and time into trying to find a way to fix their pc — because you cared about them as your neighbours — and then to not have them call you back… I’m guessing it’d feel like a stab in the back. :’(

I imagine that with so much frustration and rage building up inside, it might make it really hard to go about your day — especially if you’re having to see these neighbours often because they live so close. How have you been dealing with all of this anger? Have you been able to get support from anyone you know about how you’re feeling?

We’re totally ‘hear’ for you to get out some of your pent-up feelings too.

Take care,

The Support Team.

Hi Deepak2J,

Thanks for writing back! Sounds like you still have a lot of contempt towards your neighbours, for the way they treated you after your generous offer to help fix their pc. I get the sense that noone else knows how hurt and angry you are right now. Seems like you really value your parents and the relationships they have with your neighbours, so you don’t want to cause trouble But at the same time I’m imagining that on the inside your blood is boiling at the injustice of how your help was rejected.

I’m really glad that you took the time to talk to us about how you are feeling, cos it seems like you are pretty alone with your problems right now

I’m wondering, how have you been dealing with this frustration? Does your anger ever get so strong that you think about hurting your neighbours? You mention wanting help, and not being sure what to do…what are you considering to be your options?

Talk soon,
the Support Team

Hi again, Deepak2J.

It sounds like everything turned out for the best with your neighbours, and that you have a good relationship with them now. It must be a relief for you to be past those feelings of worry and anger at them! It sounds like you feel it was a fair situation in the end?

Thanks for checking in with us,
-The Support Team

You’re a real deep thinker. Thanks for shraing.