I get the sense that you’re calling out for help here because things are feeling pretty out of control and shaky. It sounds like you are questioning why you’re having sex with this man, and that you have your doubts because of the age difference and how it’s making you feel. I feel some concern for you, Nie, and I wonder if you feel like this is something that is safe and consentual for you? Please know that we believe that you should feel comfortable in making choices that are healthy for your own mind and body.
It seems like things are moving quickly for you and seeming really chaotic…how are you doing right now, Nie?