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    • May 25, 2013 at 11:47 pm #16403
      Adam
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      She first told me about it three months ago and she won’t promise me that she won’t commit suicide. I don’t think I could handle losing her, or at least not handle it well. A few times I’ve cried about it in front of people who have never seen me cry, or that i don’t want to see me cry. She says there’s no reason for her to live and so stubborn that if I try to tell her otherwise, she’ll reject my thoughts completely.

    • May 29, 2013 at 1:40 am #18776
      Youthspace
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      Hi Adam,

      Thank you so much for your courage to post on our forum. I can hear your struggle in supporting your girlfriend through her desire to end her life. Sounds like you have been a strong support to her despite the emotional roller coaster that you’ve been riding.

      I would guess it’s a really dark place for you to be in when you think about the worst possible outcome. Seems really frightening to think that someone you really care about is considering ending their life, and I get a sense the thought of losing her is devastating and unbearable.

      I can imagine the frustration of trying to convince her that she has more to live for than she thinks. Not to mention the rejection that I would guess you feel when she concludes that there is “no reason”. I am really worried for your girlfriend and am wondering if anyone else knows what she is going through?

      It seems that you are willing to do whatever it takes to help your girlfriend through this. I am also concerned about you and am curious, who is there to support you, and how are you taking care of yourself through these dark and and scary times?

      Keep up your strength and bravery Adam. We are here for you.

      The Support Team

    • May 30, 2013 at 10:29 pm #18778
      Adam
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      Thank you for your response. Yesterday I talked to her and she (finally) promised me she wouldn’t commit suicide. She had support from her other friends and her mother, as well as a personal counselor. My mother tries to calm me down when I start to get upset about it, but that hasn’t happened in about 5 days, so hopefully this is the end of her suicidal thoughts.

    • May 31, 2013 at 5:58 am #18780
      Youthspace
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      Hi Adam,

      Thank you so much for keeping us updated. It sounds like a lot of relief to know that you won’t be the only one your girlfriend can lean on during her struggles. It’s great to hear that there is so much support for your girlfriend and for you… it sounds like your mom is a great resource for you when you feel overwhelmed. The forum is always here as an additional resource if you feel you need to get your thoughts out. We also have our live online chat service 6-11 PST every night if you or your girlfriend need more emotional support.

      The Support Team <3

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