November 1, 2012 at 8:11 pm #16368Zelda_hyruleMember
I have been having troubles with EVERYTHING! Family, my Boyfriend, my BEST friend, bullying, and almost everything you could think of!
My friends are being mean to me and i feel that theyre not liking me as much, or they’re mad at me and i don’t know why!!
My boyfriend is going through problems and I’m worried that he’ll get hurt or something will go wrong.
I have too much school work i need to keep up on and its extremely overwhelming!!!
I’ve been thinking about suicide and I’m not sure if I’m happy or not, i just feel like everything is being out on top of my shoulders and i don’t know how to get rid of it!
If anyone can help me please do so, i don’t know what to do!!
November 2, 2012 at 7:20 pm #18469YouthspaceModerator
I’m really glad you posted… it’s clear you’re feeling totally overwhelmed with everything and you’re struggling to figure out how to survive. I get the sense you’re feeling pushed and pulled in every direction… like, its all become so overwhelming if something doesn’t give soon, you’re not sure how much more you can take How ARE you coping with all the stress and pressure?
You mentioned troubles with friends (who aren’t being friends at all!) and also with your boyfriend… I imagine worrying about him plus knowing he’s going through problems makes it hard to talk to him about your own stuff. And with your friends acting differently, well, Im sure that just makes you feel more alone and disconnected Does anyone know how you’ve been doing? Have you been able to talk to anyone about your thoughts of suicide? I can really hear how lost you feel sometimes…
Oh Zelda_hyrule… I hope you’re able to get some of the weight off your shoulders… you’re not alone here If you haven’t chatted in yet, we’d love to hear from you (every night 6-11pm in Victoria), and of course, the forum’s always open.
Stay strong, and stay connected…
the Support Team
November 12, 2012 at 5:16 am #18491dcashbieberMember
I understand what your going through, I’m actually almost in the same spot you are. With the homework just take it slow only think bout one assignment at a time, it may be a lot and seem like a lot more when you worry about it try and relax try having fun while doing it, take a break every twenty minutes or so to calm down.
As for your friends, try talking to them, see why they are acting the way they are maybe they are having problems to or they just dont know whats going on.
For your boyfriend… sit down talk to him, be there for him make sure he is okay… just talk with each other and see if you cant help each others problems. If nothing else just having each other there to listen will be a great help and a great stress reliever it will bring you guys closer, if the subject gets sore just quickly switch it out
I hope i helped
I will try my best to be here for you if you need help
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