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  • September 19, 2012 at 5:14 am in reply to: home life #18406
    missavery
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    thank you very much for your understanding, yes it is okay to respond on this thread. it feels good to hear that someone can see my true potential, my freedom means alot to me since i was 16 when i began bouncing around on the streets and home
    but i know now im better then that! me and my bf will not go back to the streets. yes my freedoms were prefect when i first came back to my dad from vancouver…after a few years its stooped alot and we get into more arguments and it results into loud yelling matches. and again yes i do feel like i have to prove myself to my dad :( sounds a little depressing having to go through great lenghts to get your own fathers acceptance or approval :( . our relationship was fine untill he began finding out i drink once ina while and i smoke weed :( ever since then hes barly accepted me as his daughter :( it hurts when he frames me as a drug addict and an alcholic :( im nowhere near any of those things :(, my boyfriend is the only one who really believes that i will truly make things work out and i am strong and im not a messed up kid :) he makes my day extra bright even when people try to bring me down with they’re against my actions or decisions. when i say “my house life has slowly crumbled” it used to be perfect at one point but when he found out i smoke weed and i drink very once in a while he was being less generous on many levels. my boyfriend truly makes an effert to keep me happy even when i got in yelling matches with my dad, he is very protective but gentle at heart…he works hard on the job,hes roofing right now during the week so i’ve tryed to convince him that all his hard work will always be rewarded :) he is happy to get weekly cheques so we can go shopping together and got out for lunch :) im very happy with my bf
    thanks for hearing what i have to say
    im glad someone hears me

    September 18, 2012 at 7:54 pm in reply to: home life #18402
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    yes my plans are pretty straight forward…my dad might not like my decisions but i stand strong for what i believe in.
    I have been craving independence since i was 15 turning 16
    when my mother began drinking,when she had 11 years of staying away from drugs and alcohol…it was the worst days ever i learned to look after myself by stealing from stores for food, i depended on my ex boyfriend at the time for shelter when my mom threw mad party’s at our house. I lived like this for two years,but when my mom decides to move away unexpectedly we were left to live on the streets and it was winter when she left with all our belongings…so we were left with nothing so we left victoria and went to Vancouver for ten mounths and i broke up with him shortly after i arrived back in vic.today my house life slowly crumbled with my dad after he heard i smoke weed to calm down with anger and frustration problems but he would never understand how i use cannibis for medicinal reasons.
    my relationship with my current boyfriend is pretty steady and simple…i love him alot,when me and him met i was on the streets. now we both moved in back at my place in brentwood with my dad, while a few mistakes here and there resulted in dads behaviour was slightly more strict more around the money department…although i work hard on keeping the house clean i barly get rewarded for it…so im broke all the time and still a little snapy around dad, even when i dont mean it he thinks i have an attitude problem. i hope everything fallows through with me getting my money situation straight and me and my bf can finally move out into our own place, maybe dad could probbly appreciate me and my bf’s decent hard work around the house once were gone. i dont think he would be able to take care of everything around the house while hes doing his art work and going to art shows around victoria…only time will tell,this whole plan will show who can uphold spacific lifestyles in a legitimate way…

    September 18, 2012 at 5:34 am in reply to: home life 2 #18401
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    yea now after that party hes quiting giving me spending money
    which kinda sucks….i ask for something simple like “hey dad can i have 6$ to get lunch after school??” then hes gave a disappointed sigh and said “okay well i wanna know is that did you drink last weekend? ” he makes things very uncomfertable and awkward for me to get immediate responce
    and then i tryed to cover my tracks but he knew i was there…soo ina way he uses intimadation and pressure for answers and it feels like im held up by knife with dad in these situations

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